"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You're funny."

loving

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Sometimes I hear people tell me this directly, girls or guys, and I have enough experience detecting sarcasm to say fairly confidently it is not that.

When I am places with my parents, people (usually those older than me) will say to them "he's got a good sense of humour" right in front of me.

It seems at first like a compliment, but it's such an awkward thing to say, that it makes me wonder what it really means.

Please give me some input.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WhitePimp

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I think it means you make them laugh...:crazy:


IT MEANS THEY THINK YOU'RE FUNNY! STOP BEING FVCKING NUTS GUYS ON THIS SITE AND ANALYZING THE MOST MINUTE BULLSHI!T!
 

Julius_Seizeher

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But...but...but what if...
 

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Guys I have a problem, you see I... i was called intelligent by my teacher the other day... what does this mean? Does she like me? I thought you guys would like to know because I have no other place to gratify my ego, so I might as well do it here.
 

J. Darko

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I think they are showing IOI, so unleash your PUA-skills, NEG a bit, use your PUSH-PULL strategy, then, when you make it to phase C3, go for a FCLOSE minimum to seal the deal. Otherwise, return to A1.


*sight*........
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This reminds me of that scene in Goodfellas where Joe Pesci is like "I'm funny how? How am I funny?"
Anyways, dude get some self confidence. What the **** does it matter what others think of you. If you think you're funny then you're funny.
 

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people say the same thing to me, i think they do it when they cant think of something better to say so they say "your funny" or they are to embarrassed to actually laugh so they say it instead. I never have a come back for the "your funny" line... so i just say ok thanks or just smile.
 

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Wasabi_Master said:
people say the same thing to me, i think they do it when they cant think of something better to say so they say "your funny" or they are to embarrassed to actually laugh so they say it instead. I never have a come back for the "your funny" line... so i just say ok thanks or just smile.
You could be right, or maybe... just maybe it's because they actually think you are funny? Sounds crazy i know, but hear me out. People can sometimes have a tendency to say what they mean. Crazy isn't it.

lol at making comebacks to "You're funny" "NO YOU'RE FUNNY"
 
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