"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's what I heard when I was playing around in bed last night. I know I have a habit of being childish and playful with the girls I'm with, but that annoyed me. I think she said it in passing because she kept on touching and stroking and kissing me and then before she left she said she had a lot of fun, but should I change my flirting around to be manlier and with more sexual innuendo? She said it after a joke I made after eating her out.

Third date is coming up next weekend, and though the actual dates themselves have been awesome, the sex after has been meh both times, so much so that I'm reconsidering even calling her for another time. She tries and I try, but it hasn't clicked yet, and I've realized that despite how much I've learned about being a mini-DJ here, I start losing that cool in the bedroom. Last night she said she didn't want to have sex after we had reached third base and were grinding, and I couldn't break through her LMR. Despite having sex the first time. Is this situation starting to slide away? Seems that way to me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've had the same thing happen to me. I'd be trying some slow and sensual seduction just to have it backfire in the end. I guess you just got to have the confidence and alphaness to escalate. If you're really Alpha I don't think the girl will get that vibe at all.

Secondly when you got a girl you might go from: "looking for pvssy" to "trying to keep the pvssy". She will be looking to see if you change your strategy and turn super-nice after you've fvcked.
 
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Chamber36 said:
Secondly when you got a girl you might go from: "looking for pvssy" to "trying to keep the pvssy". She will be looking to see if you change your strategy and turn super-nice after you've fvcked.
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Are you saying this is what I need to do to keep things going, or just the pattern most guys fall into? I'm finding myself starting to head down that path, and I'd rather remain uninvested and able to bail if needed.
 
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no. I don't have much experience with LTR's, but you're not supposed to turn extra nice after fvcking in order to keep the pvssy. Avoid heading in that direction.

I suppose that's the pattern most guys fall into. Either way, a girl will see it as a weakness. So just remain aloof, keep your standards high and maybe apply the 16 commandments of poon in my signature.

Edit: Yeah and when I say being alpha I don't mean being dominant, possessive or arrogant. It just means setting up certain boundaries. That's why I directed you to the 16 commandments of poon.
 
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I've been called cute by girls I've gotten with, I take no real notice of being called cute. It's hardly an insult now is it? It's not the worst thing a woman can say about you, so just get over it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you look or ACT cute? Truth is, a babe wouldnt really call you cute if you werent........

Bad? Maybe yes. I dont like to be "cuted" too..... Dont mean you may not still get that pvssy tho
 
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