"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"You're a nice guy, you just need to find the right girl"

Poonani Maker

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Demystify said:
"You're a nice guy, you just need to find the right girl"

Some girl said this to me recently. Does this pretty much equal that I'm an AFC?
I would have said, "Good. It worked." to myself loud enough so that she could hear me.

It doesn't hurt to be ambiguous in this situation, Then walk away. Maybe you'll see her again. Maybe you won't. Who cares? But leave her something to ponder if she so chooses.

If she chooses to ignore your Andy Warhol-like comment then just prove her wrong by your actions which she may or may not see of you in the future i.e. bring another girl into her line of sight. This will turn the hot knife faster in her side wishing she'd never said those words to you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PEPE LE PIU

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orly said:
Many people have told me that I am the epitome of the ideal man they would love their younger sisters to date.

Never mind that said sisters already have a boyfriend (usually a "bad boy") and probably wouldn't be interested in me if I was the last man on the planet.

Yeah, this pretty much means they aren't interested.
That means that you are a very nice guy who is not a thereat in any way. You are a good provider and a quiet sheep i.e. a boring AFC.

I remember once an older woman told me that she has a daughter and I would be a perfect husband for her. I asked "What you will give us for dowry? I will need a big house and 100.000€ to build the foundations of our love" :D
 

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Maybe you should try not being a nice guy and being less picky then.
 
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