"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"You're a nice guy, you just need to find the right girl"

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Demystify said:
"You're a nice guy, you just need to find the right girl"

Some girl said this to me recently. Does this pretty much equal that I'm an AFC?
I would have said, "Good. It worked." to myself loud enough so that she could hear me.

It doesn't hurt to be ambiguous in this situation, Then walk away. Maybe you'll see her again. Maybe you won't. Who cares? But leave her something to ponder if she so chooses.

If she chooses to ignore your Andy Warhol-like comment then just prove her wrong by your actions which she may or may not see of you in the future i.e. bring another girl into her line of sight. This will turn the hot knife faster in her side wishing she'd never said those words to you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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PEPE LE PIU

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orly said:
Many people have told me that I am the epitome of the ideal man they would love their younger sisters to date.

Never mind that said sisters already have a boyfriend (usually a "bad boy") and probably wouldn't be interested in me if I was the last man on the planet.

Yeah, this pretty much means they aren't interested.
That means that you are a very nice guy who is not a thereat in any way. You are a good provider and a quiet sheep i.e. a boring AFC.

I remember once an older woman told me that she has a daughter and I would be a perfect husband for her. I asked "What you will give us for dowry? I will need a big house and 100.000€ to build the foundations of our love" :D
 

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Maybe you should try not being a nice guy and being less picky then.
 
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