"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You're a nice guy, you just need to find the right girl"

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Demystify said:
"You're a nice guy, you just need to find the right girl"

Some girl said this to me recently. Does this pretty much equal that I'm an AFC?
I would have said, "Good. It worked." to myself loud enough so that she could hear me.

It doesn't hurt to be ambiguous in this situation, Then walk away. Maybe you'll see her again. Maybe you won't. Who cares? But leave her something to ponder if she so chooses.

If she chooses to ignore your Andy Warhol-like comment then just prove her wrong by your actions which she may or may not see of you in the future i.e. bring another girl into her line of sight. This will turn the hot knife faster in her side wishing she'd never said those words to you.
 

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orly said:
Many people have told me that I am the epitome of the ideal man they would love their younger sisters to date.

Never mind that said sisters already have a boyfriend (usually a "bad boy") and probably wouldn't be interested in me if I was the last man on the planet.

Yeah, this pretty much means they aren't interested.
That means that you are a very nice guy who is not a thereat in any way. You are a good provider and a quiet sheep i.e. a boring AFC.

I remember once an older woman told me that she has a daughter and I would be a perfect husband for her. I asked "What you will give us for dowry? I will need a big house and 100.000€ to build the foundations of our love" :D
 

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Maybe you should try not being a nice guy and being less picky then.
 
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