"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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daproest1

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I came here a long time ago when I was absolutely destroyed trying to save my relationship with who I thought was the one (I know, I know, first timer). Long story short, she found all of my posts here and used them against me. Told random people about it. Did the typical girl thing. Attack my image. Defame. Exaggerate. Blah blah blah.

But just a heads up to all of you. You’re not safe here. If a girl wants to find your ****, she will. She’ll talk about you behind your back to everyone she knows in real life, but find it unacceptable if you share your thoughts with anonymous strangers. She can use it to build a case against you. U know how the west is, believe all women. Men are dangerous. The usual.

find another space. Use a vpn. Talk in person. Idk. Just figured it was my Job to warn those who care.

What a waste of years with one woman. I’m glad this space exists.

she still has her eye on me from afar. Even though she hates me. Why? No idea. Wouldn’t be surprised if she came across this.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I came here a long time ago when I was absolutely destroyed trying to save my relationship with who I thought was the one (I know, I know, first timer). Long story short, she found all of my posts here and used them against me. Told random people about it. Did the typical girl thing. Attack my image. Defame. Exaggerate. Blah blah blah.

But just a heads up to all of you. You’re not safe here. If a girl wants to find your ****, she will. She’ll talk about you behind your back to everyone she knows in real life, but find it unacceptable if you share your thoughts with anonymous strangers. She can use it to build a case against you. U know how the west is, believe all women. Men are dangerous. The usual.

find another space. Use a vpn. Talk in person. Idk. Just figured it was my Job to warn those who care.

What a waste of years with one woman. I’m glad this space exists.

she still has her eye on me from afar. Even though she hates me. Why? No idea. Wouldn’t be surprised if she came across this.
How did she convert your username to you?]
 

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In legal will after death its more common to delete my browser history after i die.
 

BMX

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It happened to me once, sure. But it was because my YT content channel used to have the same name as this account used to. Regardless, she's now a leftover woman who has entered her 30's, so I could give a good Godda**. My next step here in the coming week is to delete my YT account because I stopped uploading anything years ago and it's my last social media account left. Those accounts are great for being targeted, tracked and censored --- and not by feminist leftover carousel women.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Robert28

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It’s not that women will defame you and drag your name through the mud, it’s that too many people give credence to them. If no one took what they said seriously, women wouldn’t do it.
 

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It’s not that women will defame you and drag your name through the mud, it’s that too many people give credence to them. If no one took what they said seriously, women wouldn’t do it.
It’s in their nature to do it. Men evolved to use violence, aggression, and logic to solve their problems. Women, being the physically weaker gender, evolved to use emotional manipulation, deception, and… idk what to call it…. Social terrorism? to solve theirs. This is why girls talk smack about each other behind their backs, and why guys get into fights in middle school.
 

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I don’t care if they know I’m here.
Ever dated a woman with piles of women’s magazines in her bedroom/bathroom? I can only imagine what their search history contains…I think those magazines are where some of their sh_t tests and quizzes come from.

There’s nothing wrong with asking for advice about women and self-improvement. Women do the same thing.
 

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I don’t care if they know I’m here.
Ever dated a woman with piles of women’s magazines in her bedroom/bathroom? I can only imagine what their search history contains…I think those magazines are where some of their sh_t tests and quizzes come from.

There’s nothing wrong with asking for advice about women and self-improvement. Women do the same thing.
Yes. But you’re being logical. They’re not logical. They’ll tell everyone and make you sound like the biggest POS ever. Or in my case, and one other guys case, she’ll use it to file something against you.
 

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Yes. But you’re being logical. They’re not logical. They’ll tell everyone and make you sound like the biggest POS ever. Or in my case, and one other guys case, she’ll use it to file something against you.
Did you think something else was gonna happen?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Always quite careful i've never even tell any freinds i am on here because i know even the slightest leak could cause a lot of trouble and most people have loose lips especially if they see you are doing better than they are

I wouldn't post pics of chicks on here either because i just know some incel or creep could reverse image search and cause holy hell
 

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Always remember that sloppy gets you caught.

Maybe you didn't clear your history, cookies, etc. Maybe you didn't browse these forums in Incognito mode or stealth mode. etc...

Maybe you didn't lock down your computer, ipad, phone, etc.
 

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A good rule of thumb is to never trust a woman with deeply personal information. Nothing good ever comes of it. Even if you completely have your act together, a woman will use anything she can against you. Then you have to deal with the inconvenience of having old news brought up again and putting her in her place when she does. An annoying waste of time and energy.

A measure of anonymity online is a good thing. That's why I love not having any social media accounts. There is a degree of freedom and privacy that comes from not being on social media. Complete privacy on the internet is an illusion but at least I'm only dealing with invasive corporations that track me as opposed to also dealing with social media junkies.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I came here a long time ago when I was absolutely destroyed trying to save my relationship with who I thought was the one (I know, I know, first timer). Long story short, she found all of my posts here and used them against me. Told random people about it. Did the typical girl thing. Attack my image. Defame. Exaggerate. Blah blah blah.

But just a heads up to all of you. You’re not safe here. If a girl wants to find your ****, she will. She’ll talk about you behind your back to everyone she knows in real life, but find it unacceptable if you share your thoughts with anonymous strangers. She can use it to build a case against you. U know how the west is, believe all women. Men are dangerous. The usual.

find another space. Use a vpn. Talk in person. Idk. Just figured it was my Job to warn those who care.

What a waste of years with one woman. I’m glad this space exists.

she still has her eye on me from afar. Even though she hates me. Why? No idea. Wouldn’t be surprised if she came across this.
There's a girl I know that is low-key stalking me. I know this because I know which country she is in and every time she clicks on my web page, which she does every day, it shows up in the statistics. I find it curious that someone that doesn't want to talk to me clicks on my website every day. Not that I really care, but it does prove your point. It also shows that it's hard to remain anonymous online.

Of course whatever you put online lasts forever - or at least however long this website lasts until the feminists have their way with it or the owner turns into a religious maniac that disapproves of fornication.
 

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Yep gents used to have clubs. Now land costs too much to have a shed, pubs are jam packed with arse holes and you have to wear your fake PC face in general public. Fortunately my Mrs is Asian too and I ve mildly red pilled her so I have minimal BS in my home life. Thank god because there s a lot more home life since bloody COVID.
 

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this forum should be renamed “Lord Don Juan’s country club and smoking lounge - the choice for the modern gentleman”
I'd say the word "Gentleman" would be exclusionary for more than a few here...
 

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just a head up guys if youa re that afraid to be "found" out on here, delete all history and cookies and always join up using incognito, private surfing and so on
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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