Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Your with a girl and she brings up another guy

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illmatic1005

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You know what I hate, when im spitting game on a girl and we are warming up to each other and everythings going good. Kino, flirting, you name it its all working out well.

But then a mere mention of some other guys name, mostly of the "hot, dreamy" type and everything goes down the drain.

Like, for example. I was working on this one chick, for a couple of days now and we were getting close on every level. Our faces were close and then some oen was passing by and said "Have you seen So-and-So"

Then out of nowhere she says 'OMG I LOVE HIM HES SOO HOTT' and everything fizzles away.

WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ALMOST EVERY GIRL I ENCOUNTER!!!

anyways to combat this madness?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DogFashionDisco

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Agree with her and suggest that they should go out.


Whenever girls throw little games like these at you, try to go along with it. It catches them off guard. Never show jealousy. Only complacency.
 
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Ken785

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illmatic1005 said:
You know what I hate, when im spitting game on a girl and we are warming up to each other and everythings going good. Kino, flirting, you name it its all working out well.

But then a mere mention of some other guys name, mostly of the "hot, dreamy" type and everything goes down the drain.

Like, for example. I was working on this one chick, for a couple of days now and we were getting close on every level. Our faces were close and then some oen was passing by and said "Have you seen So-and-So"

Then out of nowhere she says 'OMG I LOVE HIM HES SOO HOTT' and everything fizzles away.

WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ALMOST EVERY GIRL I ENCOUNTER!!!

anyways to combat this madness?
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Its a sh!t test my friend...
Answer:

Girl: "Oh, hes so hot and dreamy!"

You: "Yeah...id fvck em!" (in a ****y funny way...maybe put on a lil smirk ;) )
 
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darkme_legendary

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Then out of nowhere she says 'OMG I LOVE HIM HES SOO HOTT' and everything fizzles away.
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Everything in your mind "fizzles away". It's not about the girl that much.

WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ALMOST EVERY GIRL I ENCOUNTER!!!
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You get your clue from here. Honestly, It's because your garbage that you carry with you.

I think you give her plenty and easy reasons to tell you about the guy. Probably, you are not even aware of them.
 
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Ken785 said:
Its a sh!t test my friend...
Answer:

Girl: "Oh, hes so hot and dreamy!"

You: "Yeah...id fvck em!" (in a ****y funny way...maybe put on a lil smirk ;) )
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I agree. Plus, bonus points for you if you make her laugh. This instantly bumps up your own "hotness" a few notches.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Was gonna make a new topic but this is similar enough.

Basically what do you guys do when a girl has 'oneitis' for another guy? It seems no matter how good my game is with these girls it's ineffective because they're too preoccupied thinking about the other dude.

I've thought about the whole DHV thing but if she's got oneitis then she's going to have his value blown out of proportion anyway.

Help appreciated :)
 
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kingman

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Ignore the test

Her; 'OMG I LOVE HIM HES SOO HOTT'

You: Whatever and talk about something else....... Ore just talk about something else.
 
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her: he's so hot and dreamy!!
me: yeah. almost as hot and dreamy as me. almost
 
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