"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your with a girl and she brings up another guy

illmatic1005

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You know what I hate, when im spitting game on a girl and we are warming up to each other and everythings going good. Kino, flirting, you name it its all working out well.

But then a mere mention of some other guys name, mostly of the "hot, dreamy" type and everything goes down the drain.

Like, for example. I was working on this one chick, for a couple of days now and we were getting close on every level. Our faces were close and then some oen was passing by and said "Have you seen So-and-So"

Then out of nowhere she says 'OMG I LOVE HIM HES SOO HOTT' and everything fizzles away.

WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ALMOST EVERY GIRL I ENCOUNTER!!!

anyways to combat this madness?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DogFashionDisco

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Agree with her and suggest that they should go out.


Whenever girls throw little games like these at you, try to go along with it. It catches them off guard. Never show jealousy. Only complacency.
 

Ken785

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illmatic1005 said:
You know what I hate, when im spitting game on a girl and we are warming up to each other and everythings going good. Kino, flirting, you name it its all working out well.

But then a mere mention of some other guys name, mostly of the "hot, dreamy" type and everything goes down the drain.

Like, for example. I was working on this one chick, for a couple of days now and we were getting close on every level. Our faces were close and then some oen was passing by and said "Have you seen So-and-So"

Then out of nowhere she says 'OMG I LOVE HIM HES SOO HOTT' and everything fizzles away.

WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ALMOST EVERY GIRL I ENCOUNTER!!!

anyways to combat this madness?
Its a sh!t test my friend...
Answer:

Girl: "Oh, hes so hot and dreamy!"

You: "Yeah...id fvck em!" (in a ****y funny way...maybe put on a lil smirk ;) )
 

darkme_legendary

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Then out of nowhere she says 'OMG I LOVE HIM HES SOO HOTT' and everything fizzles away.
Everything in your mind "fizzles away". It's not about the girl that much.

WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ALMOST EVERY GIRL I ENCOUNTER!!!
You get your clue from here. Honestly, It's because your garbage that you carry with you.

I think you give her plenty and easy reasons to tell you about the guy. Probably, you are not even aware of them.
 

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Ken785 said:
Its a sh!t test my friend...
Answer:

Girl: "Oh, hes so hot and dreamy!"

You: "Yeah...id fvck em!" (in a ****y funny way...maybe put on a lil smirk ;) )

I agree. Plus, bonus points for you if you make her laugh. This instantly bumps up your own "hotness" a few notches.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dav27

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Was gonna make a new topic but this is similar enough.

Basically what do you guys do when a girl has 'oneitis' for another guy? It seems no matter how good my game is with these girls it's ineffective because they're too preoccupied thinking about the other dude.

I've thought about the whole DHV thing but if she's got oneitis then she's going to have his value blown out of proportion anyway.

Help appreciated :)
 

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Ignore the test

Her; 'OMG I LOVE HIM HES SOO HOTT'

You: Whatever and talk about something else....... Ore just talk about something else.
 

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her: he's so hot and dreamy!!
me: yeah. almost as hot and dreamy as me. almost
 
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