Your ways to be unpredictable

[9nigma]

We all know one of the biggest problems guys face when picking up women is being too predictable. I just want to hear your opinions on this. I know things like using the word "maybe", make her guess and not letting her knowing whether you like her or not overall. But I'm sure I can learn something new from you guys. What techniques do you use?

 

[sosousage]

yes. both men and women are like that, but men are thought of as boring more often than women because of this

 

[MrJack]

We all know one of the biggest problems guys face when picking up women is being too predictable. I just want to hear your opinions on this. I know things like using the word "maybe", make her guess and not letting her knowing whether you like her or not overall. But I'm sure I can learn something new from you guys. What techniques do you use?

If she asks what you do for work tell her you’re a professional thumb wrestler then start thumb wrestling her and use your free hand to win. Classic.

Last time a girl asked that I told her I was an astronaut in training and after getting her back to my house she saw a NASA SnapBack chilling in my closet and I was like “See?” Lol.

That’s just the job question but I find that responding with sarcasm and c0cky/funny things to all types of boring questions make you less predictable.

Just don’t overdo it or she literally will have no clue when you’re joking or being serious, which has happened to me a couple times.

 

[Bingo-Player]

when chicks used to ask me my name i'd just say you can call me Mr grey

( you need to be very c0cky with a cheeky smile)

girls like guys who dont follow the rules and girls LOVE guys who break them

also if alcohol is involved dont be afraid to really push the boundaries

let me tell you girls these days are into some really nasty sh1t in bed , you better belive she's going to want some proof your up to the challenge

 

[AttackFormation]

Beyond funny quips to what job you have, feelings are the guiding line for me. What has she felt lately? What's she feeling now? What does she want to feel? That's what I pick up, and am just aware of in the background of my mind. The alternatives are: playfulness, respect, jealousy, lust, "hate", love. Rotate her between those... that's the essence of being "unpredictable" on a consistent basis.

 

[sangheilios]

If you have to consciously go out of your way to act like this it probably isn't going to work and/or you are going after the wrong kind of women.

I'm very direct with my communication, I tell them exactly what I want, whether or not I see it going anywhere, etc. I don't have the time or energy to put on a fake persona in an attempt to play a game or entertain a female. Women that complain about getting bored easily or needing constant entertainment are not those you want to get involved with, they typically create and pursue unstable relationships. Just be a fun and genuine guy and make her do some of the work.

 

[old_skoolr]

Just don’t overdo it or she literally will have no clue when you’re joking or being serious, which has happened to me a couple times.

Same with me, it's awesome.

Went to a house party and started talking to this girl, after the party, my friend who hosted kept saying "she wouldn't shut up about you." and how she couldn't figure me out.

Always keep them on their toes.

 

[JohnChops]

when chicks used to ask me my name i'd just say you can call me Mr grey

I usually say “ I don’t do names”. Hit or miss but I think it’s funny as fvck