"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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beastmaster79

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alright so i'm in a bit of a slump. i haven't hooked up with a girl in almost a month. i'm thinking i should just lower my standards, **** a girl who is kinda cute then work my way up. does that work for you guys? it seems to have worked for me in the past.

like **** a 5 or a 6 then a 7 then an 8 than a 9 or 10. does that make sense?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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tsmith2334

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wjh said:
forget the number scale.
+1. forget the number scale, it's mostly bullsh1t. try to hook up with someone you feel attracted to.

by the way, a month sucks, but it's not bad at all.

some people go on a slump for years or die a virgin. keep everything relative and don't get too discouraged.
 

Nutz

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By the very nature of being involved with a woman your desireability will go up (preselection). What I've noticed first hand is that the hotter the woman you're with the hotter in general the women desiring you will tend to be, not to mention way more women will want you. I guess it's the whole "if *she* is with him then he *really* must have it going on!"
 

Effington

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If it helps you get your confidence up to go after the uglier one once in awhile, go for it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Metaphysical

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yes. it works but it takes some time. you need to get experience down before you can expect to bang a dime.

it took me over a year (20 women) to work my way up from banging pretty much fugly girls to very hot ones.
 

young_gun

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Damn, I know that now if I went a month without sex, I'd go certifiably insane, but one month is not that bad.

I went 20 solid months without sex a couple years ago. Not fun.
 
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