“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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beastmaster79

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alright so i'm in a bit of a slump. i haven't hooked up with a girl in almost a month. i'm thinking i should just lower my standards, **** a girl who is kinda cute then work my way up. does that work for you guys? it seems to have worked for me in the past.

like **** a 5 or a 6 then a 7 then an 8 than a 9 or 10. does that make sense?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tsmith2334

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wjh said:
forget the number scale.
+1. forget the number scale, it's mostly bullsh1t. try to hook up with someone you feel attracted to.

by the way, a month sucks, but it's not bad at all.

some people go on a slump for years or die a virgin. keep everything relative and don't get too discouraged.
 

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By the very nature of being involved with a woman your desireability will go up (preselection). What I've noticed first hand is that the hotter the woman you're with the hotter in general the women desiring you will tend to be, not to mention way more women will want you. I guess it's the whole "if *she* is with him then he *really* must have it going on!"
 

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If it helps you get your confidence up to go after the uglier one once in awhile, go for it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Metaphysical

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yes. it works but it takes some time. you need to get experience down before you can expect to bang a dime.

it took me over a year (20 women) to work my way up from banging pretty much fugly girls to very hot ones.
 

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Damn, I know that now if I went a month without sex, I'd go certifiably insane, but one month is not that bad.

I went 20 solid months without sex a couple years ago. Not fun.
 
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