"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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beastmaster79

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alright so i'm in a bit of a slump. i haven't hooked up with a girl in almost a month. i'm thinking i should just lower my standards, **** a girl who is kinda cute then work my way up. does that work for you guys? it seems to have worked for me in the past.

like **** a 5 or a 6 then a 7 then an 8 than a 9 or 10. does that make sense?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tsmith2334

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wjh said:
forget the number scale.
+1. forget the number scale, it's mostly bullsh1t. try to hook up with someone you feel attracted to.

by the way, a month sucks, but it's not bad at all.

some people go on a slump for years or die a virgin. keep everything relative and don't get too discouraged.
 

Nutz

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By the very nature of being involved with a woman your desireability will go up (preselection). What I've noticed first hand is that the hotter the woman you're with the hotter in general the women desiring you will tend to be, not to mention way more women will want you. I guess it's the whole "if *she* is with him then he *really* must have it going on!"
 

Effington

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If it helps you get your confidence up to go after the uglier one once in awhile, go for it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Metaphysical

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yes. it works but it takes some time. you need to get experience down before you can expect to bang a dime.

it took me over a year (20 women) to work my way up from banging pretty much fugly girls to very hot ones.
 

young_gun

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Damn, I know that now if I went a month without sex, I'd go certifiably insane, but one month is not that bad.

I went 20 solid months without sex a couple years ago. Not fun.
 
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