"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your View Of "Cool"

gregory

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What would a REALLY REALLY cool social proofed guy do on a daily basis? any ideas?

spend loads of cash at a mall, go to events? anything else?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gregory

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i meant, "SOCIAL PROOFED" as in, have a really good social life... etc... lol
 

The_411

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It's simple as mentioned above you just do whatever the hell you want to just don't stay at home unless you've got a woman coming over.

1) Go to the beach
2) Go to a museum
3) Go walk around town
4) Go to a lecture
5) Go to a coffee house with a book.
6) Hang out with friends at their house
7) Anywhere you can have intereaction with women.
8) Anywhere you can improve yourself (i.e gym, dance lessons, yoga, exercising classes)
 
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