Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Your View Of "Cool"

gregory

Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2004
Messages
52
Reaction score
0
What would a REALLY REALLY cool social proofed guy do on a daily basis? any ideas?

spend loads of cash at a mall, go to events? anything else?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

gregory

Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2004
Messages
52
Reaction score
0
i meant, "SOCIAL PROOFED" as in, have a really good social life... etc... lol
 

The_411

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2005
Messages
962
Reaction score
149
It's simple as mentioned above you just do whatever the hell you want to just don't stay at home unless you've got a woman coming over.

1) Go to the beach
2) Go to a museum
3) Go walk around town
4) Go to a lecture
5) Go to a coffee house with a book.
6) Hang out with friends at their house
7) Anywhere you can have intereaction with women.
8) Anywhere you can improve yourself (i.e gym, dance lessons, yoga, exercising classes)
 
Top