"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Your View Of "Cool"

gregory

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What would a REALLY REALLY cool social proofed guy do on a daily basis? any ideas?

spend loads of cash at a mall, go to events? anything else?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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gregory

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i meant, "SOCIAL PROOFED" as in, have a really good social life... etc... lol
 

The_411

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It's simple as mentioned above you just do whatever the hell you want to just don't stay at home unless you've got a woman coming over.

1) Go to the beach
2) Go to a museum
3) Go walk around town
4) Go to a lecture
5) Go to a coffee house with a book.
6) Hang out with friends at their house
7) Anywhere you can have intereaction with women.
8) Anywhere you can improve yourself (i.e gym, dance lessons, yoga, exercising classes)
 
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