"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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darksprezzatura

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What I expect out of you guys from this thread is what you define as the principles, boundaries and values of your lives.

Your rules.

Mine include:
1. Freedom > Money, Pvssy.
2. Cut out the negativity and what doesn't matter.
3. Every failure is another step to success.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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darksprezzatura said:
What I expect out of you guys from this thread is what you define as the principles, boundaries and values of your lives.

Your rules.

Mine include:
1. Freedom > Money, Pvssy.
2. Cut out the negativity and what doesn't matter.
3. Every failure is another step to success.
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Those are great values

With women its

1. RESPECT
2.NO DRAMA OR CONFLICT OVER TRIVIAL THINGS
3.FAMILY AND FRIENDS
 
HughJasolphd

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1. "Achieve failure"- Tom Platz
I heard him say it in a leg training video & it totally reworked my viewpoint on what it is to fail. Achieving failure is one step closer to the success you're after
2. Respect
3. Remove the situations & or people that no longer serve my growth to becoming the best person I can be
 
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