"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your values

darksprezzatura

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What I expect out of you guys from this thread is what you define as the principles, boundaries and values of your lives.

Your rules.

Mine include:
1. Freedom > Money, Pvssy.
2. Cut out the negativity and what doesn't matter.
3. Every failure is another step to success.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What I expect out of you guys from this thread is what you define as the principles, boundaries and values of your lives.

Your rules.

Mine include:
1. Freedom > Money, Pvssy.
2. Cut out the negativity and what doesn't matter.
3. Every failure is another step to success.
Those are great values

With women its

1. RESPECT
2.NO DRAMA OR CONFLICT OVER TRIVIAL THINGS
3.FAMILY AND FRIENDS
 

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1. "Achieve failure"- Tom Platz
I heard him say it in a leg training video & it totally reworked my viewpoint on what it is to fail. Achieving failure is one step closer to the success you're after
2. Respect
3. Remove the situations & or people that no longer serve my growth to becoming the best person I can be
 
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