"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alpheta

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it's really hard to give you guys the picture but I'll give it a shot.

Lately, the girl I've been with has stopped really calling me in the nights. Now I know that's nothing to worry about but she always does.

Now she only calls at lunch or just after work when she gets home. There's nothing wrong in that but it's weird how she's told me that her mother knows we talk (she's Muslim) and wants her to stop. Her mother knows about us but now she says her mum wants us to marry but she mustn't speak to me.

It seems to me that she has purposely stopped talking to me when she gets home. It's not because her mum takes her phone off her but I feel she CHOOSES not to.

The fact is, she is coming over to my place this week (on her work day) she's coming to gift me for my bday and will come xtra early.

Now I've had a thought on this and I really don't want to call her out on it. I plan on literally ignoring her up until the meet up. When we meet instead of chilling with her im just gna pump and then just leave.

She'll be confused but the reason for this is that my gut tells me she's acting weird intentionally. I just can't help but want to get a power move on her.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are you always waiting for her to call, or do you call sometimes as well? Maybe she wants you to to initiate more... I wouldn't worry about it unless she doesn't answer when you attempt to make contact, but if it's just you sitting around waiting for her then that's kind of weak on your part
 
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She's going about it in secrecy from her mother. I had a similar case and I do not like girls who are onto something "serious" with a guy, but don't tell their parents. Not a good signal so watch out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I stopped reading near the beginning. You have her on a pedestal.
 
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Sounds like you guys talk too much! You don't need to talk to your woman every night.
 
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Yep get out and about and then you will have more stories to tell.
 
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