"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your **** test for her before getting really hitched.

mikey2012

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It's seldom that we meet a chick who is single. Chicks usually have boyfriends even if they are not that into them because they don't want to be lonely, or they need someone to pay for them, or they don't want to be stigmatized by not having a boyfriend .
Even if they are in a good relationship, they are always looking out for something bigger and better even if they don't realize it.
So say you meet a chick who is already attached and she has dumped her bf to be with you. You go out for a while and think you are in LTR, and you think of going exclusive and not spin plates because you are comfortable. You must give her your **** test, whether you think she's really into you or if she's going bounce for something better.
If she does then, no matter, you have saved yourself from a lot of grief since if you got hitched with her for good, she might bounce on you at a later date.

Always keep the ***** on her toes.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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mikey2012 said:
So say you meet a chick who is already attached and she has dumped her bf to be with you. You go out for a while and think you are in LTR, and you think of going exclusive and not spin plates.
:crackup: Dude, why the hell would you take a girl who dumped her bf to be with you seriously? You've already given the test, and she failed. If she was able to be seduced out of the arms of her man, she's not worth being in a relationship with. You were able to do it to her and her old boyfriend, what makes you think another guy couldn't do the same thing with you?
 

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Vidrio said:
:crackup: Dude, why the hell would you take a girl who dumped her bf to be with you seriously? You've already given the test, and she failed. If she was able to be seduced out of the arms of her man, she's not worth being in a relationship with. You were able to do it to her and her old boyfriend, what makes you think another guy couldn't do the same thing with you?
Are you saying you would only go out with single chicks?

If a HB10 liked you and wanted to dump her bf because she liked you, you would say no?

Spoken like a true AFC
 
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