"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Your **** test for her before getting really hitched.

mikey2012

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It's seldom that we meet a chick who is single. Chicks usually have boyfriends even if they are not that into them because they don't want to be lonely, or they need someone to pay for them, or they don't want to be stigmatized by not having a boyfriend .
Even if they are in a good relationship, they are always looking out for something bigger and better even if they don't realize it.
So say you meet a chick who is already attached and she has dumped her bf to be with you. You go out for a while and think you are in LTR, and you think of going exclusive and not spin plates because you are comfortable. You must give her your **** test, whether you think she's really into you or if she's going bounce for something better.
If she does then, no matter, you have saved yourself from a lot of grief since if you got hitched with her for good, she might bounce on you at a later date.

Always keep the ***** on her toes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mikey2012 said:
So say you meet a chick who is already attached and she has dumped her bf to be with you. You go out for a while and think you are in LTR, and you think of going exclusive and not spin plates.
:crackup: Dude, why the hell would you take a girl who dumped her bf to be with you seriously? You've already given the test, and she failed. If she was able to be seduced out of the arms of her man, she's not worth being in a relationship with. You were able to do it to her and her old boyfriend, what makes you think another guy couldn't do the same thing with you?
 

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Vidrio said:
:crackup: Dude, why the hell would you take a girl who dumped her bf to be with you seriously? You've already given the test, and she failed. If she was able to be seduced out of the arms of her man, she's not worth being in a relationship with. You were able to do it to her and her old boyfriend, what makes you think another guy couldn't do the same thing with you?
Are you saying you would only go out with single chicks?

If a HB10 liked you and wanted to dump her bf because she liked you, you would say no?

Spoken like a true AFC
 
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