"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your talking to a girl and another guy interupts, does it make you look weak?

JT47319

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The other "coin trick" is to snatch the coin out his hand. Very flashy, makes you look cool in front of the girl, lowers the guy's value but doesn't totally insult him.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm going to say one more thing, and for all my advice is worth hopfully it will serve to keep you from acting like a complete idiot in front of her. You should be wary taking some of the advice you have been receiving.

Show your confidence with the knowledge that you, and only you, will be going home with her afterwards.
Whenever another guy approaches a girl you are with or dating you should always respond with humor. Sit there with a big smile showing your teeth and watch the guy try with all his effort to win her over if he absolutly thinks he has to hit on your woman. In the end it is up to her anyways, and you want to know why? You're just going to have to trust her.
Whenever another guy approaches a girl you are with you should always respond with humor. Anything else means insecurity and weakness.

And when you get home or alone with her say something jokingly, like for example "Hey, you think maybe he thought you were hot?" and wink at her or something. If you say it with the right stress it can have a real good effect.
 
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