"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your success is not related to the success of your relationship

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Disclaim: this is stolen (well, "borrowed") straight off another post. Saw it this morning somewhere & had to post cos it's relevant to my current situation.

Your success in life, as a person, whatever, is not related to the success of your relationship. Do not judge yourself harshly if your girlfriend calls it a day, if your last date doesn't return your calls, whatever.

There are always other factors which influence on your relationship.

For example, her friend may have just split up with her BF and they've decided to be miserable together. Or she has decided that she doesn't want a serious relationship for some reason, and finds herself falling in love with you, so she splits. Perhaps she's decided she doesn't like you because you're too popular, or not fat enough. Or it's Tuesday. Who knows? They're fscking women. No point trying to guess.

There you sit, blaming yourself for it not working out... bull! Don't let this get to you - you are successful in life because of who you are, not who your girl is/was/will be.

Thanks to whoever posted this on Discussion (reply & take the credit).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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