ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
So are whites always fortunate wherever they go? Are there places where whutes are more likely to do better?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Amen brother.I'm Mulatto ...... I am not that attracted to blondes unless they are curvy and have nice hips legs and a fat butt
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Here is a good thread from a few years ago:Why close the thread? That doesn't really separate us from liberals or PC feminists, if you don't like the conversation, there are at least 20 other threads far more to your liking.
I never said whites are racist and hold no ill will towards white people but censoring every thread on race because it hurts your feelings is no different than the radical left censoring conservative views.
That doesn't help people in my situation. Im a black guy that was raised with and partially by whites my whole life. I have a decent career and would prefer to live in a decent area. This kills my dating market because girls that I'm compatible with date white guys and other minorities over black guys due to money reasons. Plus, these girls are closer to their families because they come from more stable families. Even the black girls like me choose white men. Black men like me are literally on par with fob immigrants because of this. We are completely overlooked because people see athletes/stereotypical blacks dating white trash/white women white men don't want lol. I've managed to survive with my ldr, but this girl isn't long term for me.Here is a good thread from a few years ago:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/maybe-a-helpful-post-for-minorities-i-know-it-helped-me.158261/
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It's kinda irrational to think others should have the same preferences as you.Being mulatto does have more advantages then say being Asian or Indian. But my aim was never to game blonde women for status or recognition. When I was younger I was 95 percent attracted to Latinas, very seldom I would like a white or black chick. As of right now I have never been attracted to Asian women sexually. As I get older my taste has changed and remained the same. I'm more attracted to Middle Eastern women/Latinas,black women, Caucasian brunettes. Asian women still a no no
I know others don't that was kind of the point of the post. Not everyone pedestals blondes, These threads are annoying, I should just ignore them, I feel like they are troll threads. But personally I could care less about blondes mehIt's kinda irrational to think others should have the same preferences as you.
I have regular success with black women. How are you meeting women normally? My guess is that you live in a predominantly white area and go to a predominantly white club/bar that has a handful of black women. While it is definitely possible that black women at a predominantly white club are interested in black men, the odds are much lower. That is like going to a hip hop concert and expecting to bump into a fan of folk music.... it is possible, but the majority of people that like folk music are probably at a folk music concert.That doesn't help people in my situation. Im a black guy that was raised with and partially by whites my whole life. I have a decent career and would prefer to live in a decent area. This kills my dating market because girls that I'm compatible with date white guys and other minorities over black guys due to money reasons. Plus, these girls are closer to their families because they come from more stable families. Even the black girls like me choose white men. Black men like me are literally on par with fob immigrants because of this. We are completely overlooked because people see athletes/stereotypical blacks dating white trash/white women white men don't want lol. I've managed to survive with my ldr, but this girl isn't long term for me.