ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
So are whites always fortunate wherever they go? Are there places where whutes are more likely to do better?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Amen brother.I'm Mulatto ...... I am not that attracted to blondes unless they are curvy and have nice hips legs and a fat butt
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Here is a good thread from a few years ago:Why close the thread? That doesn't really separate us from liberals or PC feminists, if you don't like the conversation, there are at least 20 other threads far more to your liking.
I never said whites are racist and hold no ill will towards white people but censoring every thread on race because it hurts your feelings is no different than the radical left censoring conservative views.
That doesn't help people in my situation. Im a black guy that was raised with and partially by whites my whole life. I have a decent career and would prefer to live in a decent area. This kills my dating market because girls that I'm compatible with date white guys and other minorities over black guys due to money reasons. Plus, these girls are closer to their families because they come from more stable families. Even the black girls like me choose white men. Black men like me are literally on par with fob immigrants because of this. We are completely overlooked because people see athletes/stereotypical blacks dating white trash/white women white men don't want lol. I've managed to survive with my ldr, but this girl isn't long term for me.Here is a good thread from a few years ago:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/maybe-a-helpful-post-for-minorities-i-know-it-helped-me.158261/
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It's kinda irrational to think others should have the same preferences as you.Being mulatto does have more advantages then say being Asian or Indian. But my aim was never to game blonde women for status or recognition. When I was younger I was 95 percent attracted to Latinas, very seldom I would like a white or black chick. As of right now I have never been attracted to Asian women sexually. As I get older my taste has changed and remained the same. I'm more attracted to Middle Eastern women/Latinas,black women, Caucasian brunettes. Asian women still a no no
I know others don't that was kind of the point of the post. Not everyone pedestals blondes, These threads are annoying, I should just ignore them, I feel like they are troll threads. But personally I could care less about blondes mehIt's kinda irrational to think others should have the same preferences as you.
I have regular success with black women. How are you meeting women normally? My guess is that you live in a predominantly white area and go to a predominantly white club/bar that has a handful of black women. While it is definitely possible that black women at a predominantly white club are interested in black men, the odds are much lower. That is like going to a hip hop concert and expecting to bump into a fan of folk music.... it is possible, but the majority of people that like folk music are probably at a folk music concert.That doesn't help people in my situation. Im a black guy that was raised with and partially by whites my whole life. I have a decent career and would prefer to live in a decent area. This kills my dating market because girls that I'm compatible with date white guys and other minorities over black guys due to money reasons. Plus, these girls are closer to their families because they come from more stable families. Even the black girls like me choose white men. Black men like me are literally on par with fob immigrants because of this. We are completely overlooked because people see athletes/stereotypical blacks dating white trash/white women white men don't want lol. I've managed to survive with my ldr, but this girl isn't long term for me.