ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
So are whites always fortunate wherever they go? Are there places where whutes are more likely to do better?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Amen brother.I'm Mulatto ...... I am not that attracted to blondes unless they are curvy and have nice hips legs and a fat butt
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Here is a good thread from a few years ago:Why close the thread? That doesn't really separate us from liberals or PC feminists, if you don't like the conversation, there are at least 20 other threads far more to your liking.
I never said whites are racist and hold no ill will towards white people but censoring every thread on race because it hurts your feelings is no different than the radical left censoring conservative views.
That doesn't help people in my situation. Im a black guy that was raised with and partially by whites my whole life. I have a decent career and would prefer to live in a decent area. This kills my dating market because girls that I'm compatible with date white guys and other minorities over black guys due to money reasons. Plus, these girls are closer to their families because they come from more stable families. Even the black girls like me choose white men. Black men like me are literally on par with fob immigrants because of this. We are completely overlooked because people see athletes/stereotypical blacks dating white trash/white women white men don't want lol. I've managed to survive with my ldr, but this girl isn't long term for me.Here is a good thread from a few years ago:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/maybe-a-helpful-post-for-minorities-i-know-it-helped-me.158261/
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's kinda irrational to think others should have the same preferences as you.Being mulatto does have more advantages then say being Asian or Indian. But my aim was never to game blonde women for status or recognition. When I was younger I was 95 percent attracted to Latinas, very seldom I would like a white or black chick. As of right now I have never been attracted to Asian women sexually. As I get older my taste has changed and remained the same. I'm more attracted to Middle Eastern women/Latinas,black women, Caucasian brunettes. Asian women still a no no
I know others don't that was kind of the point of the post. Not everyone pedestals blondes, These threads are annoying, I should just ignore them, I feel like they are troll threads. But personally I could care less about blondes mehIt's kinda irrational to think others should have the same preferences as you.
I have regular success with black women. How are you meeting women normally? My guess is that you live in a predominantly white area and go to a predominantly white club/bar that has a handful of black women. While it is definitely possible that black women at a predominantly white club are interested in black men, the odds are much lower. That is like going to a hip hop concert and expecting to bump into a fan of folk music.... it is possible, but the majority of people that like folk music are probably at a folk music concert.That doesn't help people in my situation. Im a black guy that was raised with and partially by whites my whole life. I have a decent career and would prefer to live in a decent area. This kills my dating market because girls that I'm compatible with date white guys and other minorities over black guys due to money reasons. Plus, these girls are closer to their families because they come from more stable families. Even the black girls like me choose white men. Black men like me are literally on par with fob immigrants because of this. We are completely overlooked because people see athletes/stereotypical blacks dating white trash/white women white men don't want lol. I've managed to survive with my ldr, but this girl isn't long term for me.