"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your Posts Should Have To Earn The Right To Be In The Tips Forum!

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i remember back when all i would do was go to the tips forum (ok and the hall of fame)

i didn't have to search through pages and pages of crap to find a diamond.

now when i look on the tips forum i see about 5-7 decent posts on the first page and two of them were old pook posts that got bumped.

all posts should start off in the Don Juan Discussion and if the tips are considered worthy enough they should be moved to the tips section.

this way we keep a worthwhile stock of good posts without letting the trash in.

Take a look for yourself, how many of these so-called tips do anything but waste your time andmake you shake your head>?

it then becomes a huge hastle to find that awsome post that someone wrote 2 years ago while you have to look through posts that say nothing new by a bunch of people that don't really understand what they are talking about (see 99% of the confidence posts, hell there are like 5 on the first page)

this is part of the reason why people have left or lost interest b/c you can't tell the good posts from the trash.

Thankyou Allen & Moderators in advance...
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BOO!! HISS!!

But, I'd be out of a job! and Crazykid would have nothing to do!
 

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Re: BOO!! HISS!!

Originally posted by Von Neuen
But, I'd be out of a job! and Crazykid would have nothing to do!
Hey wait, you got the Health and Fitness Forum that runs gre...Ok, you'd be waived, but I'd have Discussion where I am love...Man, we'd both be on the streets.
 

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The First Internetional

Originally posted by Von Neuen
But, I'd be out of a job! and Crazykid would have nothing to do!
Originally posted by crazykid
Man, we'd both be on the streets.
My fellow revolutionaries, it appears the haves (mods) do not wish to give into the demands of the have-nots (us) because a change in the status quo adversely affects their position in our society. I recommend a bloody revolution in order to establish the first true dictatorship of the proletariat.
 

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Re: The First Internetional

Originally posted by MVPlaya
My fellow revolutionaries, it appears the haves (mods) do not wish to give into the demands of the have-nots (us) because a change in the status quo adversely affects their position in our society. I recommend a bloody revolution in order to establish the first true dictatorship of the proletariat.
Ever hear of "sarcasm?" Only trouble with everything being in Discussion and then moving it all into Tips is, how would we decide what should go and what doesn't? What happens when someone gets mad that thier post doesn't get in?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Second Internetional

Originally posted by crazykid
Ever hear of "sarcasm?" Only trouble with everything being in Discussion and then moving it all into Tips is, how would we decide what should go and what doesn't? What happens when someone gets mad that thier post doesn't get in?
Ha, you filthy capitalist pig. In your search for wealth you cannot see the sarcasm in the First Internetional I posted. Thus, I must note that your responses are only typical of anyone living in the economic system that is enforced upon us by the bourgeoisie and their vanguard leaders.
 

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Re: Re: The First Internetional

Originally posted by crazykid
What happens when someone gets mad that thier post doesn't get in?
Probably the same thing that happens when someone gets mad that their post was kicked out: I ignore them profusely.
 

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Viva La Revolucion! It's about time we liberate America from the threat of weapons of mass destruction! The imperialistic capitalists must stop take advantage of Iraq! Comrades, the time for revolution is now!
 
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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
there is no downside to this and would only serve to improve your site.
if I'm browsing a discussion forum and I see a post entitled "kino," it's one thing for me to go "ok I can give advice" but another to find out it's a tip and think "ok nothing new, lets hit the back button and try again."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
it surely would leave the cream of the crop in tips.

there is no downside to this and would only serve to improve your site.
Actually, we have "the cream of the crop" already. You're... what? three years too late? Four? :p

I take it you never swing by The Archive, huh? :)
 

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Originally posted by Von Neuen
Actually, we have "the cream of the crop" already. You're... what? three years too late? Four? :p

I take it you never swing by The Archive, huh? :)
so then why are most of the best posts here (such as pook, fingers, etc. ) all in the TIPS section and not the Archieve, i thought that the archieve was only for OLD posts.
 

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Originally posted by Dubs
so then why are most of the best posts here (such as pook, fingers, etc. ) all in the TIPS section and not the Archieve, i thought that the archieve was only for OLD posts.
The Tips section is one of only THREE forums that don't get old posts deleted monthly. The other two being: The Archive and Moderator's Corner. The Archive is only for posts that were too interesting to be deleted in the other forums (hence, Bootcamp, certain FR's, questions, and other various posts are there, that were not originally in Tips.) The Moderator's Corner is only for...Well, Moderator's and the Administrator.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
The Tips section is one of only THREE forums that don't get old posts deleted monthly. The other two being: The Archive and Moderator's Corner. The Archive is only for posts that were too interesting to be deleted in the other forums (hence, Bootcamp, certain FR's, questions, and other various posts are there, that were not originally in Tips.) The Moderator's Corner is only for...Well, Moderator's and the Administrator.
thats nice and all but there is no middle ground between the tips/discussion page and the archive.

and i think that the archive should be changed into that middle ground or that another folder should be added. i realize that say, pook's posts are still on the site but they are hard to access b/c all of his tip posts are only to be found when using the search function.

if posts of high quality were moved into the archieve or another folder it would be a great database to find these posts easily.

so then the archieve/new folder could serve as a middle ground from this website and the bible.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Re: Re: The First Internetional

Originally posted by crazykid
Ever hear of "sarcasm?" Only trouble with everything being in Discussion and then moving it all into Tips is, how would we decide what should go and what doesn't? What happens when someone gets mad that thier post doesn't get in?
My post didn't get into the Archive section! I'm mad!

See how inane this was? Nobody really cares - just as nobody will care if someone gets mad that their post didn't make it from General to Tips. I am all for it - after all, if they REALLY get mad about it, they'll try to 'get revenge' by creating a really useful, relevant, and undeniably quality thread. Then they'll be in the Tips section.




Viva le Revolution!!!
 

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I do agree with the idea that the tips section should get rid of junk. But if this idea was to go forward, then the the thing that happen a while back would probably happen again.

That thing being everyone wanted their post to go to the bible.
People would just post any crap so their post can go to the tips forum, and they can become "famous".
 

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The people posting these great tips frankly won't care what happens to their post. They know their post is good and don't need your or the mods' approval. The retarded newbies will mind and that will just make it oh so much easier to weed out the good and the bad.
 

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I made some of the dumbest non-tip posts on Anything Else and it got moved to Tips for some strange reason....

I think when posts about "human waste" are put in the tips forum by the moderators you have to ask why....(c'mon mods I was pointing out something funny I saw, it wasn't a frigging tip!)
 
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