"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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* Are you always on time
* Are you always Mentally Prepared?
* Do You have a written plan on how you are going to achieve your goals?
* Do you have everything in your life organized so that you can work more efficently?
* Do you have production goals? ( I want to date this type of girl by this date, I want to be talking to this type of girl by this date)
* Do you have activity goals? (I will talk to x amount of women starting from X to X Date)
* Are you Focused?
* Do you have a High level of Enthusiam about what you are doing?
* Do you always Operate with energy?
* Do you always possess a winning attitude?
* Do you value every person and treat each person the same?
* Are you detailed Oriented?
* Do you follow up potential dates? In Business, do you follow up potential or sold clients?
* Do you have great product Knowledge (IN this case, yourself)
* Do you have great knowledge of your Competitors' Products? (In this case, other guys)
* Are you a Great Listener?
* Are you Empahetic?
* Are you Driven To Succeed?
* Are you Intensely Competitive?
* Do you always Seek Continual Improvement?
* Do you love Accountablity and Feedback?
* Are you a team player? (Good wingman)
* Do you love what you do?
* Are you Self Disciplined?
* Are you a great communicator?
* Are you a great closer?
* Do you have great people skills?
* Are you a master of non verbel body language?
* Are you Coachable? ARe you willing to Learn?
* Do you have a great personality?
* Do you see yourself as your own business?
* ARe you a Risk Taker?


This is something I stole from a book I found that had to with selling.. but it can be applied to anything, including women. These are all things that can be worked on, imporoved upon, to be the best person you can be at all times.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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