"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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* Are you always on time
* Are you always Mentally Prepared?
* Do You have a written plan on how you are going to achieve your goals?
* Do you have everything in your life organized so that you can work more efficently?
* Do you have production goals? ( I want to date this type of girl by this date, I want to be talking to this type of girl by this date)
* Do you have activity goals? (I will talk to x amount of women starting from X to X Date)
* Are you Focused?
* Do you have a High level of Enthusiam about what you are doing?
* Do you always Operate with energy?
* Do you always possess a winning attitude?
* Do you value every person and treat each person the same?
* Are you detailed Oriented?
* Do you follow up potential dates? In Business, do you follow up potential or sold clients?
* Do you have great product Knowledge (IN this case, yourself)
* Do you have great knowledge of your Competitors' Products? (In this case, other guys)
* Are you a Great Listener?
* Are you Empahetic?
* Are you Driven To Succeed?
* Are you Intensely Competitive?
* Do you always Seek Continual Improvement?
* Do you love Accountablity and Feedback?
* Are you a team player? (Good wingman)
* Do you love what you do?
* Are you Self Disciplined?
* Are you a great communicator?
* Are you a great closer?
* Do you have great people skills?
* Are you a master of non verbel body language?
* Are you Coachable? ARe you willing to Learn?
* Do you have a great personality?
* Do you see yourself as your own business?
* ARe you a Risk Taker?


This is something I stole from a book I found that had to with selling.. but it can be applied to anything, including women. These are all things that can be worked on, imporoved upon, to be the best person you can be at all times.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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