"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your path or purpose in life

poohead

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So I understand that the first step in mastering your inner game is to first figure out your path or purpose in life, and then continually be moving towards this path or purpose. After some soul searching, I came up with:

To continue to develop physically, intellectually, and spiritually, so that I might eventually reach a state of self actualization, in which I have achieved mastery over all areas of my life.
This might be too general. My original path/purpose was 'to become successful in my career and retire early', but this seemed more like a specific goal than a 'path'.

What's your path?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Macgyver

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Watch action movies, watch movies where the the lead character is a masculine male.

What do they have in common?

They have goals, YES, but what kinda goals is the question. The quote you got from some dumbass "yeah, you gotta improve your INNER GAME, wow oh wow I am such a genius, INNAH GAME yo yo nigga in da hood"

Here it is buddy from what I've noticed from what most lead masculine characters have or at least two of them:

1. Power
2. Money
3. B1tches

You must know HOW to achieve that power (working out, doing risky but not reckless things, learning stuff), then comes money (job, career, investments, home, bills, etc), and of course b1tches. But if you got the first one or two parts sorted out, Numero 3 will come to you naturally.

Look at Bill Gates. He's an AFC - yet he has the Money part down, with money comes Power. He's got a Ho and many hos on the side.
 

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Money = Power

It's the same thing. That's how Bill Gate's hoes can actually do him, they can see him as powerful and not just a geek who will buy them things.

So really it's -> Power = Women (Sounds kind of rapist like but you know what I mean.)
 

Bvbidd

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:crazy:

Does it spark that primative male instinct in ya?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KillingTime

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My purpose? To be happy... if I find out that being poor makes me happy then that's what I'll do. IMO You guys need to stop focusing on women so damn much, it's almost an obsession... everyone's talking about power=women and all this... WHO CARES, just forget about women for a second and focus on the most important person in your life, yourself.
 
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