"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your path or purpose in life

poohead

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So I understand that the first step in mastering your inner game is to first figure out your path or purpose in life, and then continually be moving towards this path or purpose. After some soul searching, I came up with:

To continue to develop physically, intellectually, and spiritually, so that I might eventually reach a state of self actualization, in which I have achieved mastery over all areas of my life.
This might be too general. My original path/purpose was 'to become successful in my career and retire early', but this seemed more like a specific goal than a 'path'.

What's your path?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Macgyver

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Watch action movies, watch movies where the the lead character is a masculine male.

What do they have in common?

They have goals, YES, but what kinda goals is the question. The quote you got from some dumbass "yeah, you gotta improve your INNER GAME, wow oh wow I am such a genius, INNAH GAME yo yo nigga in da hood"

Here it is buddy from what I've noticed from what most lead masculine characters have or at least two of them:

1. Power
2. Money
3. B1tches

You must know HOW to achieve that power (working out, doing risky but not reckless things, learning stuff), then comes money (job, career, investments, home, bills, etc), and of course b1tches. But if you got the first one or two parts sorted out, Numero 3 will come to you naturally.

Look at Bill Gates. He's an AFC - yet he has the Money part down, with money comes Power. He's got a Ho and many hos on the side.
 

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Money = Power

It's the same thing. That's how Bill Gate's hoes can actually do him, they can see him as powerful and not just a geek who will buy them things.

So really it's -> Power = Women (Sounds kind of rapist like but you know what I mean.)
 

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Does it spark that primative male instinct in ya?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KillingTime

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My purpose? To be happy... if I find out that being poor makes me happy then that's what I'll do. IMO You guys need to stop focusing on women so damn much, it's almost an obsession... everyone's talking about power=women and all this... WHO CARES, just forget about women for a second and focus on the most important person in your life, yourself.
 
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