blueline,
yea, you havent read that book i posted...
google this: the sex god method daniel rose site:mediafire.com
unzip the file and read.
till then, yes, it's good for the first few times to get the girl off actively. it's hard for us to understand because of how WE get off being so simple, but women are wired differently. so much more emotion and dominance/submissiveness is tied to it. although, it is also good to vary the sexual experiences just because too much of a good thing is well.. a bad thing.
and i think the op is asking about more the first couple of times, so asking "why do you love me?" probably isnt very applicable.
and...
you said she'd volunteer the 'facts' that "[she's] never loved somebody so much" or whatever? that wasnt bullsh1t... at the time she spoke it! as i said, these girls are in HUGELY vulnerable, ATTACHED positions at the time of pillow talk. she felt a certain way, and she told you about it at that moment. that's good!
my advice though, is not to ask anything AFC-ish like "how much do you like me," "how do you feel about me?" or any iteration of those. My advice is to be more covert, and not display AFC tendencies! (TINY doses are SOMETIMES okay) think more along the lines of "what's going on in your head right now?" type questions.
also, when i say make jokes about how good it was, let me tell you a story about that...
the other day i had just gotten done with a new girl, and we were doing the usual stuff, laying there, breathing hard, bodies pressed together, etc. i started joking about how now she had at least a FEW good sexual experiences. (she'd told me she hadnt--probably not true, but still a good thing to joke with her about) her response to that? "fvck yea... i feel like im at the end of one of those KY commercials where they both just lay there... jesus..."
now the purpose of that is not to e-brag, but more to show what im talking about. obviously there was a "fun" kind of tone underlying below our encounter. joking about stuff after the fact makes you come across as that fun guy, as well as avoids insecurities... two good things for your cause.
so keep it fun.
