"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your opinion on "good girls"?

Effington

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I have a date with a hottie I met at the gym, and she's a total good girl. In her mid 20's, lived with her parents her entire life; went to a local college, and now works in same city. Most of her weekend stories consist of family nights.

Is this good or bad?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What are you looking for with this chick?

A fling, a one night stand, a LTR??

What exactly?

If its a fling or one night stand good stuff, no problems to be had there.

If you are looking for an LTR though and this girl is fairly young without a lot of experience and you get the LTR going anyway, over time she could begin to wonder what she's been missing out on. In essence you will be giving her a taste of things to come and come some more heh heh.

So a fun fling or one night stand is the best course of action to take with a chick who doesn't have a lot of experience under her belt while going for an LTR with a young inexperienced chick is a huge risk for you emotionally as you are not setting yourself up for the best chance at success since going for a chick like this who hasn't experienced life is likely really not ready to settle down at this point with one guy permaneantly.

She could be the exception to the rule and you two could have a wonderful relationship with eachother together forever but then again I could win the lottery tomorrow but thats not likely to happen either.

So the answer to your question is dependent on what you are looking for with this chick.
 

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It's OK to go for this but have other plates going. I have a 19 yo plate who's a virgin, not giving it up easy to ANYONE. She's really nice and we get along and all, but no way would I get too involved emotionally as the risk is too high with girls this young.
 

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I don't know her that well so don't know what I'm looking for yet. On the age thing, she's like 26...that's young for a relationship? I don't really know how much experience she's had, honestly. It'd be hard to believe a girl as hot as she is has been single her entire life. She just gives off the impression of the homebody.

I would think a college grad with a career may be looking for the next step, but like I said, I don't know her that well.
 

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Well I don't want to stereotype all girls at this age who are inexperienced, and I might have a totally different personality than you. But I generally find girls like that boring and not very interesting. But then again my lifestyle generally is very active and independent of family for the most part. Even my family member are active and can party it up from time to time more than most other families so so me the so called "small town girl" or "good girl" generally seems boring to me.

Now then again you could have a totally different personality than me, or you could have struck a gold mine with a girl who is still a "good girl" and is also very interesting. I do agree with the other people who have already replied that you are also taking a risk because this girl is young and hasn't experienced life to the fullest and therefore could suddenly change all of sudden and leave you in the dust.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Effington said:
I have a date with a hottie I met at the gym, and she's a total good girl. In her mid 20's, lived with her parents her entire life; went to a local college, and now works in same city. Most of her weekend stories consist of family nights.

Is this good or bad?
One word...

marriage?

this type of girl is the type you want to have your babies...

thats what I'm pushing you on.
 

DonJuan11

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Effington said:
I have a date with a hottie I met at the gym, and she's a total good girl. In her mid 20's, lived with her parents her entire life; went to a local college, and now works in same city. Most of her weekend stories consist of family nights.

Is this good or bad?

She may think you are not good for her either, since you don't live at home and haven't going to a local college and have weekend family nights.
 
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