"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Your One Word or Phrase for Huge Inspiration.

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I would go with Carpe Diem which means "seize the day", not "live for the moment".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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eat that puss
 

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Well done is better than well said.
Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame.
Potentail just means you ain't done it yet.
If everybody was satisfied with himself, there would be no heroes.
 

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Hmm some great stuff here!
Still not sure what i want to get.... looking into ancient chinese sayings now lol. I think characters are heaps cooler.. especially the really old forms. And not every joe blow can read and understand it either!

Hoping to get a few more ideas,

felony.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Live Life"
 

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I always think of this ad I saw a few years back in a magazine. It showed a younger guy out playing pool and having some fun. The caption said something like this:

"Too tired to go out tonight? Imagine how tired you'll be when your 70. Live a little."

Whenever I don't feel like going out cuz 'I'm tired', that line replays in my mind, and suddenly I find the energy....

Your only young once....
 

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Yo daddy must've fed you a tablespoon of honey everyday because your the sweetest thing in my head.

--Outkast
 

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Someone else said it but "Here and Now" is the gold, this is also a line from one of my favorites books....Island by Aldous Huxley

Etre (- French for 'be')

Dare

Driven by the Dream

Achieve

Advance

Lion

only 1 life 2 live.

Pure

Zen

****ing hell the list is endless
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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UPDATE NOW!

So, what did you end up putt!ng on the ring?
 

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YO, yeah i've decided on a particular short modified proverb/phrase. I just need to get them engraved.

I won't tell you what they are tho :)

I ended up taking some ideas from this board, talked to some old chinese guys at a kung fu school, and looked up a few things in the state library to put together something very simple and has some kind of old authenticity about it.

Thanks for everyones responses.

felony.
 

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veni vide vice

if thats how it spelled

gone there, seen it, conquered it .. or something simular to that.

or the one I use when being dared.. "2 can play that game, but I Play it better"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"What did your father say that makes you try so hard?"
"Be the Best"- Men of Honor

"Why do you want this so bad?"
"Because they told me I couldn't have it"--Men of Honor

"And lying on your beds many year's from now, would you be willing to trade all the day's from this day to that for one chance just ONE CHANCE to come back here and tell your enemy's, they may take our lives, but they never take our FREEDOM!"- Braveheart

William:"I'm going to invade lower England."
Noble: "Why? That's impossible!"
William: "Why is that impossible?"- Braveheart

Those would have to be my favorites, and they always seem to get me off my butt.
 

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motto

You want something profound? How about this:

Follow the seven habits of highly effective people, adapt them to your life, that is synthesize the habits. Then you won't need a ring. You will already be espousing those high ideals.

Until you get there, how about Bible? This way, you have 2 seperate references to think of. The DJ bible and the real one.

Or how about "SUPERMAN"

after all, you can do anything!
 

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I really wanted to bump this whole thread, and to continue its growth.

To all aspiring DJ's this post really helped me on my journey and some of the ideas listed really helped. I want others in the community to post some ideas and notions that helped them improve. Ive come a long way since I found this post (left this site for a while) right now I am dating multiple girls, working really hard in school, striving for my dreams, and working out everyday. I think that often what we struggle most in life is not the actual practice (inside all of us we possess social skills, work ethic, intelligence etc.) but finding the strength to get out of the malaise of our everyday routines and rhythms and break free to a higher discipline and a higher happiness. EVERYONE on this site possess the ability to attract a mate, what they need is help in finding their inner strength which will force them to TRY. How much do you actually TRY?

I used to keep to myself, slack off in school, be unfit, not care about learning or improving. Just another 5'6 angry sad kid trying to find his way but doing nothing about it. I just did the same thing everyday rarely breaking out.....until I fully embraced the notion of CARPE DIEM (SEIZE THE DAY)

EVERYDAY the world out there holds ENDLESS possibilities for F***ing hot girls, or getting a promotion, getting physical fitness etc... Its on us as men to GO OUT AND GET THEM

I wake up everyday with a huge grin on my face so happy close to tear, WHY? I realize just how beautiful it is that I get the chance to get up, get out, and get something. Life is Beautiful. There are countless opportunities for, intellectual stimulation, beautiful girls, deep emotional connections, fun, physical pleasure...AVAILABLE TO ALL OF US. I am so happy I get to go out and chase these things, think of all of those whose hearts no longer tick and no longer get these chances. With god as my rock (ill leave religion out) and a strong will to improve and actively pursue the things I want my life has improved dramatically (more than you could ever know).

Ill leave this post with a great quote which keeps me centered and helps me to take actions everyday.

"May your thoughts be of actions, and may your actions represent a man of thought"

I hope that I have helped the other aspiring DJs out there like this site helped me
 

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I thought only my son would have this phrases I have collected but this is a nice topic and I guess I can share some of them with you guys...

"If you want to be successfull faster, you must double your failures!"

"Waste time and time will waste you!!"

"The things that come to those that wait, may be the thing left by those who got there first!!"

"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about dancing in the rain!"

And this video is really motivating as well...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_tjY...6013AA0B&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=74
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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