"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Your odd physical preferences in women

oOh Nasty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2002
Messages
1,126
Reaction score
353
Age
40
I have a really weird one.

A girl better be pretty damned gorgeous in every other aspect in order for me to ignore it.

For some reason, I find hands with longer nail beds to be more attractive and feminine. Meaning, short nail beds and stubby fingers make my d*ck soft.

I've met a few girls who I consider to be beautiful but have ruined it for myself upon realizing they have ugly hands. I met a really beautiful tall Chinese girl in the past who had a skinny model body and white skin. The only thing was...she had one of those murderer's thumbs similar to Megan Fox's.

Long and slender fingers on well kept hands are what does it for me.

What about you guys?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
tiny almost nonexistent breasts (gravity resistant / longevity factor)
 

AttackFormation

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2014
Messages
4,062
Reaction score
3,617
Age
33
Location
Sweden
I like fat girls which in theory should mean more for me, but it's ironic since I live in a place with few of them and you guys complain about them all the time.
 

Dust 2 Dust

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 25, 2002
Messages
2,163
Reaction score
680
Location
Florida
I can't stand women who don't shave or wax their arms. Hairy arms are gross. It's an insta-next when I see it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

rum

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 20, 2011
Messages
139
Reaction score
4
Always liked woman with large feet, or at least long fingers and toes. Short and stubby always looked gross and midgets to me.

Never liked really curly hair either.
 

Who Dares Win

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2012
Messages
7,426
Reaction score
5,803
I like women with small tight asses and straight toned legs.

A large fat ass with x shaped legs and skinny fat calves are a huge turn off, so are short fat girls.
 

PeasantPlayer

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2013
Messages
3,069
Reaction score
946
Love them chunky, but firm thick women....they are built for a pounding
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Atom Smasher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2008
Messages
8,653
Reaction score
6,605
Age
69
Location
The 7th Dimension
Nice feet. If she doesn't have nice feet, I've gotta walk.
 

sazc

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2016
Messages
4,468
Reaction score
3,402
straight teeth, good oral hygiene, and a brain. must be alpha without needing to be a$$hole :)

I feel the need to point out - this thread is another reason why none of us should take rejection personally, EVER. You guys are generally correct in your assessment - responsiveness in texting time, behaviors, etc, that there is low interest. And you are dead on when you coach each other to NC and to next - there is no reason to ever waste your time. Sometimes I see some men getting butthurt and taking it personally when a womans interest wains. If this is ever you, remember this thread because the answer could be as simple as stubby fingers, a flannel shirt, etc.
 
Top