"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Your odd physical preferences in women

oOh Nasty

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I have a really weird one.

A girl better be pretty damned gorgeous in every other aspect in order for me to ignore it.

For some reason, I find hands with longer nail beds to be more attractive and feminine. Meaning, short nail beds and stubby fingers make my d*ck soft.

I've met a few girls who I consider to be beautiful but have ruined it for myself upon realizing they have ugly hands. I met a really beautiful tall Chinese girl in the past who had a skinny model body and white skin. The only thing was...she had one of those murderer's thumbs similar to Megan Fox's.

Long and slender fingers on well kept hands are what does it for me.

What about you guys?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tiny almost nonexistent breasts (gravity resistant / longevity factor)
 

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I like fat girls which in theory should mean more for me, but it's ironic since I live in a place with few of them and you guys complain about them all the time.
 

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I can't stand women who don't shave or wax their arms. Hairy arms are gross. It's an insta-next when I see it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Always liked woman with large feet, or at least long fingers and toes. Short and stubby always looked gross and midgets to me.

Never liked really curly hair either.
 

Who Dares Win

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I like women with small tight asses and straight toned legs.

A large fat ass with x shaped legs and skinny fat calves are a huge turn off, so are short fat girls.
 

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Love them chunky, but firm thick women....they are built for a pounding
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nice feet. If she doesn't have nice feet, I've gotta walk.
 

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straight teeth, good oral hygiene, and a brain. must be alpha without needing to be a$$hole :)

I feel the need to point out - this thread is another reason why none of us should take rejection personally, EVER. You guys are generally correct in your assessment - responsiveness in texting time, behaviors, etc, that there is low interest. And you are dead on when you coach each other to NC and to next - there is no reason to ever waste your time. Sometimes I see some men getting butthurt and taking it personally when a womans interest wains. If this is ever you, remember this thread because the answer could be as simple as stubby fingers, a flannel shirt, etc.
 
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