"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your New Years Eve Plans

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Its that time of the year were we make a few new years resolutions and we tend to break them around March.

haha anyway.

what do you have planned for the countdown? Since its my first New years eve in my new apartment I think im going ot have a bunch of people over.

That way you save $$ on drinks. no need to wait in lineups for a drink. and trying to find a cab is virtually impossible downtown.

So if anyone if got too drunk ive got 2 comfy sofas and a quenn size bed just in case any ladies decide i will be there new years f*ck.

WHAT DO YOU HAVE PLANNED??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I never understood why people wait an entire year before they make resolutions; they're selling themselves short.

I personally have monthly resolutions, and I use New Year's to reflect on what progress I made in the last year, and speculate what I will achieve this year.

Tony Robbins' "Personal Power" program helps guide me through the NLP process and keeps me on track, I listen to it about every quarter.

And I personally believe that setting up resolutions for the ENTIRE YEAR is setting yourself up to fail, since most people fail rather quickly and lose hope.
 
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so, i guess you are staying for the countdown?
 
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I'm excited, playing out at my first New Year's show. Going to be great, my band get's the "midnight slot" . Play for an hour and a half and get done at 12:15 so we can party there the rest of the night.

We aren't getting paid as much as I know we should be but we're going to have a blast.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Not too sure yet. Might be going to an awesome local rock gig in my city, but a bunch of my friends want to head down to Manhattan or Brooklyn and party down there. I think I might just go with the first option to save some money. I know if I'm drunk in NYC I'll wind up spending a ton of money lol.
 
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Welcome to my house party party.. Welcome to my House party party...Welcome to my house party party?
I'm going to a house party party.....
 
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No plans yet. As always, maybe a dinner with my god sister and her parents, but that's a boring. I've got new friends maybe something with them. 29th a chick is coming from Moscow, we chatting on Russian POF, maybe there something, maybe not. It's 2012, gotta meet it with a bang, 2nd I'm going to Arab Emirates for 8 days.
 
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backseatjuan said:
No plans yet. As always, maybe a dinner with my god sister and her parents, but that's a boring. I've got new friends maybe something with them. 29th a chick is coming from Moscow, we chatting on Russian POF, maybe there something, maybe not. It's 2012, gotta meet it with a bang, 2nd I'm going to Arab Emirates for 8 days.
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Russian POF. Never heard of it. Vkontakte, face, and bigmir. But not POF. Russian speaking world that lives in the CIS/Baltic states use totally different platforms. POF is for immigrant types that should be totally avoided. Nice story though. POF for Moscow would only be hookers for Western tourists. BTW, Russians find it almost impossible to travel to the West, unless they have lots of money. Visa requirements are s---t.

Westerners are clueless about the CIS/Baltic states.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not the POF, pof like love.mail.ru. Its full of hookers too but plenty normal people.

Doesnt matter where u at, rules of the game are the same. Can look at my past fvck ups and picture me listening to too short.
 
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Gonna go to a party, find some b*tches, bring one or two home, bang said b*tches, kick them out of my home around 4, and sleep. Not the most original plan but New Years eve is on a saturday and I'll have sunday football and another corp free day on monday so keeping it simple and lite is what I'm all about.
 
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backseatjuan said:
No plans yet. As always, maybe a dinner with my god sister and her parents, but that's a boring. I've got new friends maybe something with them. 29th a chick is coming from Moscow, we chatting on Russian POF, maybe there something, maybe not. It's 2012, gotta meet it with a bang, 2nd I'm going to Arab Emirates for 8 days.
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Russian POF does not exist.
 
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Planning on going to Praag this year or next year, depending on what my brother does...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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