"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Your New Years Eve Plans

PokerStar

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Its that time of the year were we make a few new years resolutions and we tend to break them around March.

haha anyway.

what do you have planned for the countdown? Since its my first New years eve in my new apartment I think im going ot have a bunch of people over.

That way you save $$ on drinks. no need to wait in lineups for a drink. and trying to find a cab is virtually impossible downtown.

So if anyone if got too drunk ive got 2 comfy sofas and a quenn size bed just in case any ladies decide i will be there new years f*ck.

WHAT DO YOU HAVE PLANNED??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I never understood why people wait an entire year before they make resolutions; they're selling themselves short.

I personally have monthly resolutions, and I use New Year's to reflect on what progress I made in the last year, and speculate what I will achieve this year.

Tony Robbins' "Personal Power" program helps guide me through the NLP process and keeps me on track, I listen to it about every quarter.

And I personally believe that setting up resolutions for the ENTIRE YEAR is setting yourself up to fail, since most people fail rather quickly and lose hope.
 

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so, i guess you are staying for the countdown?
 

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I'm excited, playing out at my first New Year's show. Going to be great, my band get's the "midnight slot" . Play for an hour and a half and get done at 12:15 so we can party there the rest of the night.

We aren't getting paid as much as I know we should be but we're going to have a blast.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Not too sure yet. Might be going to an awesome local rock gig in my city, but a bunch of my friends want to head down to Manhattan or Brooklyn and party down there. I think I might just go with the first option to save some money. I know if I'm drunk in NYC I'll wind up spending a ton of money lol.
 

women haze

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Welcome to my house party party.. Welcome to my House party party...Welcome to my house party party?
I'm going to a house party party.....
 

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No plans yet. As always, maybe a dinner with my god sister and her parents, but that's a boring. I've got new friends maybe something with them. 29th a chick is coming from Moscow, we chatting on Russian POF, maybe there something, maybe not. It's 2012, gotta meet it with a bang, 2nd I'm going to Arab Emirates for 8 days.
 

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backseatjuan said:
No plans yet. As always, maybe a dinner with my god sister and her parents, but that's a boring. I've got new friends maybe something with them. 29th a chick is coming from Moscow, we chatting on Russian POF, maybe there something, maybe not. It's 2012, gotta meet it with a bang, 2nd I'm going to Arab Emirates for 8 days.
Russian POF. Never heard of it. Vkontakte, face, and bigmir. But not POF. Russian speaking world that lives in the CIS/Baltic states use totally different platforms. POF is for immigrant types that should be totally avoided. Nice story though. POF for Moscow would only be hookers for Western tourists. BTW, Russians find it almost impossible to travel to the West, unless they have lots of money. Visa requirements are s---t.

Westerners are clueless about the CIS/Baltic states.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not the POF, pof like love.mail.ru. Its full of hookers too but plenty normal people.

Doesnt matter where u at, rules of the game are the same. Can look at my past fvck ups and picture me listening to too short.
 

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Gonna go to a party, find some b*tches, bring one or two home, bang said b*tches, kick them out of my home around 4, and sleep. Not the most original plan but New Years eve is on a saturday and I'll have sunday football and another corp free day on monday so keeping it simple and lite is what I'm all about.
 

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backseatjuan said:
No plans yet. As always, maybe a dinner with my god sister and her parents, but that's a boring. I've got new friends maybe something with them. 29th a chick is coming from Moscow, we chatting on Russian POF, maybe there something, maybe not. It's 2012, gotta meet it with a bang, 2nd I'm going to Arab Emirates for 8 days.
Russian POF does not exist.
 

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Planning on going to Praag this year or next year, depending on what my brother does...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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