"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your new Self-Improvement Sheet....provided by yours truly. ;)

SilverSonnet

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Hey guys (and you girls;))

Got a little something for you. A new sheet! :D This is the beta sheet, and I might make a few changes to it, but here it is. if you'd like, post your sheets up here, and let's compare. :D

Self Improvement
By Silver Sonnet
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(Delete my text and replace it with your objectives after)


Physically
(Anything to do with looking better. Clothing style, accessories, physical fitness, BMI, clear skin, tans, etc.)

Mentally
(Anything to do with your mentality. Your personality traits, whether you’re a calm, laid back person, or a fun, bubbly crazy person)

Intellectually
(Anything to do with how clever you are. Whether you read a lot, your up to date with the worldly news)

Financially
(Anything to do with your finances. If you have a lot of cash, whether you invest wisely, whether your saving for specific things cleverly, etc)

Socially
(How your social status is, how often do you go out on a week? Do you get invited out a lot? How do you friends/acquaintances see you?)

Emotionally
(Are you secure, do you know that you are the great catch? Can you take criticism easily, and if it’s true, work to improve on that area? Can you be humble, wise and respect other people’s opinions/views?)

Spiritually
(Are you open to new ideas, the possibility of life after death, etc? Are you optimistic in life? Are you close to others, do you help people in need?)

Career Development
(Are you where you want to be right now? Do you know what you want to be? Do you have the knowledge, the desire, the DRIVE to get to where you want to be? Or are you a mouse, a loser, a nobody? You choose.)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Here's an idea for you to incorporate. You sheet is a great start but maybe look at developing something more indepth for the people out there that want to make detailed plans to achieve the goals outlined in the sheet.
 

Max Power

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I appreciate the effort, but your sheet is pretty vague.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SilverSonnet

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Lads, it's up to you to fill in the blanks. I dont know you, I dont know what your good or bad in. It's a BETA template, you improve on it. After all, we wont all have the same sheet. Adapt it to your own needs.
Peace.
 
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