"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your new Self-Improvement Sheet....provided by yours truly. ;)

SilverSonnet

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Hey guys (and you girls;))

Got a little something for you. A new sheet! :D This is the beta sheet, and I might make a few changes to it, but here it is. if you'd like, post your sheets up here, and let's compare. :D

Self Improvement
By Silver Sonnet
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(Delete my text and replace it with your objectives after)


Physically
(Anything to do with looking better. Clothing style, accessories, physical fitness, BMI, clear skin, tans, etc.)

Mentally
(Anything to do with your mentality. Your personality traits, whether you’re a calm, laid back person, or a fun, bubbly crazy person)

Intellectually
(Anything to do with how clever you are. Whether you read a lot, your up to date with the worldly news)

Financially
(Anything to do with your finances. If you have a lot of cash, whether you invest wisely, whether your saving for specific things cleverly, etc)

Socially
(How your social status is, how often do you go out on a week? Do you get invited out a lot? How do you friends/acquaintances see you?)

Emotionally
(Are you secure, do you know that you are the great catch? Can you take criticism easily, and if it’s true, work to improve on that area? Can you be humble, wise and respect other people’s opinions/views?)

Spiritually
(Are you open to new ideas, the possibility of life after death, etc? Are you optimistic in life? Are you close to others, do you help people in need?)

Career Development
(Are you where you want to be right now? Do you know what you want to be? Do you have the knowledge, the desire, the DRIVE to get to where you want to be? Or are you a mouse, a loser, a nobody? You choose.)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Here's an idea for you to incorporate. You sheet is a great start but maybe look at developing something more indepth for the people out there that want to make detailed plans to achieve the goals outlined in the sheet.
 

Max Power

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I appreciate the effort, but your sheet is pretty vague.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SilverSonnet

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Lads, it's up to you to fill in the blanks. I dont know you, I dont know what your good or bad in. It's a BETA template, you improve on it. After all, we wont all have the same sheet. Adapt it to your own needs.
Peace.
 
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