"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Your my little sister.

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As HILLYBILLY as that sounds.

That is my mindset when I am talking to a girl...Does this work with anybody else?

I discovered this was the mindset to have - "I love you" but "I can fuk with you" (This is verbal joking not fuking her vagina, ok?)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Adopt girls as you new little sisters....sets up a great CF frame
 
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Treating all chicks like ur younger sister is way old, but its good someone brought it up again. For all the keyboard jokeys & all the other guys that cant get off their butts that dont DJ, have a mindset that its ur little sister & that they crap like u & me, if that doesnt help u pick up then no-one can help u.

P.S. if u still cant pickup after thinking that then get off this site & stop wasting ur time.
 
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P.S. if u still cant pickup after thinking that then get off this site & stop wasting ur time.

lol, or figure out which pot it is that you're sh!ttin in, and try and find the one that everyone else is sh!ttin in, and get to that one.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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it works, one of my friends when i used to hang out iwth her, i'd pull c&f/witty stuff, kino, teasing, and @ the pool hall one time, the manager guy i know well, he asked me who she was....(in other words wanting to know if it was my gf) i said nah she's my sister cant you tell??

but yea a few months down, she became aloof with me and kinoed me a few times @ a friend's dinner party. so im sure her IL was through the roof. but since i dont really like her i never bothered with her.
 
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