"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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anile8

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hi guys
today my mate broke up with his girlfriend, she dumped him. they were goin out for like 1 month maybe a bit more and werent very close. When should be the soonest time i can even hook-up with her without actually goin out with her. We arent best mates but i would really hope to stay friends with him.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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it really depends on your friend and how much you want the girl. if your friend is really sensitive to his bro going for his ex, he might get pissed even if you try 6 months from now. but if you think he'll cool down , and she will still be available, then wait a while. its pretty much up to you and what is more important to you" him or her. your call
 
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check if ur friend still likes her..

if worse comes to worse, keep it secret....it really isnt that hard...as long as shes ok with it too...

but either way id seee what ur friend would say....tell him i heard that that kid "insert name here" is trying to get with your girl...make it a friend of his, but no1 that close to him

and if he says are you ****ing kidding me im gonna kick his ass...be like its just a rumor, ive never talked to him about it...dont say nothing though...

if he says ooo thats cool, i dont mind she isnt mind...

then you can tell him sooner then later...dont tell him right there and then though
 
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