"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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anile8

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hi guys
today my mate broke up with his girlfriend, she dumped him. they were goin out for like 1 month maybe a bit more and werent very close. When should be the soonest time i can even hook-up with her without actually goin out with her. We arent best mates but i would really hope to stay friends with him.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chill

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it really depends on your friend and how much you want the girl. if your friend is really sensitive to his bro going for his ex, he might get pissed even if you try 6 months from now. but if you think he'll cool down , and she will still be available, then wait a while. its pretty much up to you and what is more important to you" him or her. your call
 

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check if ur friend still likes her..

if worse comes to worse, keep it secret....it really isnt that hard...as long as shes ok with it too...

but either way id seee what ur friend would say....tell him i heard that that kid "insert name here" is trying to get with your girl...make it a friend of his, but no1 that close to him

and if he says are you ****ing kidding me im gonna kick his ass...be like its just a rumor, ive never talked to him about it...dont say nothing though...

if he says ooo thats cool, i dont mind she isnt mind...

then you can tell him sooner then later...dont tell him right there and then though
 
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