"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ok am reading The mating game - Why men want sex & women want love by Allan & Barbara pease.
They say that your brain only registers 5% of what is around you & if you make a priority list that is what you will see...so they recommend writing
down a list of characterisics & attrributes of your perfect life partner.
Don't compromise, but be realistic.
They promise you that whatever you write down on your list will immeadiatley begin to appear around you & be drawn to you. And it does not fail.

Well i'm off to try it. My list is:- I want a weird, reliable 7 who is quiet.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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