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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Your Joints and working out

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Recently, I've been feeling pain in my joints...
I dont know if this is caused from working out ... or that im deficient of something...

What is a something that i can do to relieve the pain in my joints.
Im experiencing pain on my knee joints... hip joints... elbow joints... arm joiints... and the middle part ofmy back towards the spine area...

The pain isnt excruciating but it's like acheness...
and it hurts more if you put pressure on it..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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also, probably a good idea to do proper stretching. Its best to stretch when your muscles are warm, esp. after a workout.
 

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big bump on stretching, i've heard good things about flax also, if the pains get worse, see a physio
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Jimbo2k
I hear Marijuana relives pain ;)
I hear it doesn't. :)

Anyway, just relax for a couple of days from working out with exercise that effect THAT joint that hurt. Personally I had my right elbow which hurt like a *****.
With proper stretching, joint suppy and rest I was able to have it fine in three days or so.

Good luck soldier, keep lifting!
 

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Thumbs down

My joints still hurt and i've been stretching..

They only hurt when i rub the joints though..

i dont feel the pain when i dont touch it..

THeres gotta be an better alternative solution to join pain.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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if you're doing wrist curls, stop, they're very bad, unless they're behind the back
 

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Im not doing anything unusual.

I mean, rub your joints.
take this time to do it right now....


Keep rubbing different joints..


Don't you feel some ache when you do that?
 
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