KnightRyder
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KnightRyder
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you are right about this one thread, it is redundant, but my other two threads I could find much on a search.
I have read alot and still reading about the whole bible.
I'll go and kill this one for now ...
I have read alot and still reading about the whole bible.
I'll go and kill this one for now ...
My favourite opener is "Hello". It have been field tested and it works. Sometimes I do variation, like when I am in the bus station maybe i'd say: "Helle... do you think it would be more fun to ride the bus if it had six tires? *smile*", if I am in the bar maybe: "Hello, I'd wanted to come over and scream a little to you."... or sometimes I just nod o the girl with my head and smile, if she nods back I go talk to her or do some body language talking with her. (not stripping). The point is IMPROVISE.
They usually give their numbers when I say I must go. Otherwise I say something very much everything.
Ohh, that's the beauty part. Sometimes I talk about everything. And it is soo fun.
You know, the thing about approaching is to make it fun. If the girl find you attractive and you find her attractive and you talk, it just can't go wrong. Don't worry so much, talk wit the firl who find you attractive and she'll help you in the convo. PU should be fun. :] Repeat, FUN OH LALA !
Don't ask if she is single right off, it's worthless and it has been field tested.
They usually give their numbers when I say I must go. Otherwise I say something very much everything.
Ohh, that's the beauty part. Sometimes I talk about everything. And it is soo fun.
You know, the thing about approaching is to make it fun. If the girl find you attractive and you find her attractive and you talk, it just can't go wrong. Don't worry so much, talk wit the firl who find you attractive and she'll help you in the convo. PU should be fun. :] Repeat, FUN OH LALA !
Don't ask if she is single right off, it's worthless and it has been field tested.
i once tried "are you gayle?" because i needed to find a gayle.
she thought i said "are you gay?" twice. once that confusion had cleared up, i proceeded to ask her anyway if she was gay
broke some ice there
you could try that if you've got the balls to ask women "are you gay?" then say you said "gayle"
...but for normal convos, say whatever the fvck you want. say whatevers on your mind, besides "please please please let me stick my c0ck in you". if she doesn't like what you're saying she has low interest level; move on
she thought i said "are you gay?" twice. once that confusion had cleared up, i proceeded to ask her anyway if she was gay
broke some ice there
you could try that if you've got the balls to ask women "are you gay?" then say you said "gayle"
...but for normal convos, say whatever the fvck you want. say whatevers on your mind, besides "please please please let me stick my c0ck in you". if she doesn't like what you're saying she has low interest level; move on