KnightRyder
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
KnightRyder
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you are right about this one thread, it is redundant, but my other two threads I could find much on a search.
I have read alot and still reading about the whole bible.
I'll go and kill this one for now ...
I have read alot and still reading about the whole bible.
I'll go and kill this one for now ...
My favourite opener is "Hello". It have been field tested and it works. Sometimes I do variation, like when I am in the bus station maybe i'd say: "Helle... do you think it would be more fun to ride the bus if it had six tires? *smile*", if I am in the bar maybe: "Hello, I'd wanted to come over and scream a little to you."... or sometimes I just nod o the girl with my head and smile, if she nods back I go talk to her or do some body language talking with her. (not stripping). The point is IMPROVISE.
They usually give their numbers when I say I must go. Otherwise I say something very much everything.
Ohh, that's the beauty part. Sometimes I talk about everything. And it is soo fun.
You know, the thing about approaching is to make it fun. If the girl find you attractive and you find her attractive and you talk, it just can't go wrong. Don't worry so much, talk wit the firl who find you attractive and she'll help you in the convo. PU should be fun. :] Repeat, FUN OH LALA !
Don't ask if she is single right off, it's worthless and it has been field tested.
They usually give their numbers when I say I must go. Otherwise I say something very much everything.
Ohh, that's the beauty part. Sometimes I talk about everything. And it is soo fun.
You know, the thing about approaching is to make it fun. If the girl find you attractive and you find her attractive and you talk, it just can't go wrong. Don't worry so much, talk wit the firl who find you attractive and she'll help you in the convo. PU should be fun. :] Repeat, FUN OH LALA !
Don't ask if she is single right off, it's worthless and it has been field tested.
i once tried "are you gayle?" because i needed to find a gayle.
she thought i said "are you gay?" twice. once that confusion had cleared up, i proceeded to ask her anyway if she was gay
broke some ice there
you could try that if you've got the balls to ask women "are you gay?" then say you said "gayle"
...but for normal convos, say whatever the fvck you want. say whatevers on your mind, besides "please please please let me stick my c0ck in you". if she doesn't like what you're saying she has low interest level; move on
she thought i said "are you gay?" twice. once that confusion had cleared up, i proceeded to ask her anyway if she was gay
broke some ice there
you could try that if you've got the balls to ask women "are you gay?" then say you said "gayle"
...but for normal convos, say whatever the fvck you want. say whatevers on your mind, besides "please please please let me stick my c0ck in you". if she doesn't like what you're saying she has low interest level; move on