That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's amazing!! I try to act like a 5 year old sometimes, although I keep it to a minimum because I don't want to be seen as the "dancing monkey" or whatever. But this is good stuff, probably better for HB8+ in my opinionOxide said:Everyone has a few of these. The stuff you pull out of the hat with almost every girl that works almost always.
Here is some of mine:
The good old, "hey what's this?" as you point to her neck (where adams apple would be). As she looks down you flick her chin and laugh.?
For n easrlier kiss that would probably be awkward, sounds like it depends on the girl also. As you said though you got mixed result, Ill try this though AmazingAmazing said:anyone try doing the kiss, then saying "well, that was good, like a 7/10"
i did it a few times with mixed results though
Yeah, this usually works, though I've only used it on HB7.5s and above.Amazing said:anyone try doing the kiss, then saying "well, that was good, like a 7/10"
i did it a few times with mixed results though
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
NewAndImproved said:Haven't had the balls to try it on a random girl though.
Funnily enough I use both of these. Except I add the "Naooooooooooooooooooooo" at the end of pulling away for the High Five.Oxide said:The good old, "hey what's this?" as you point to her neck (where adams apple would be). As she looks down you flick her chin and laugh.
The high five take away. Get pumped, say high five and as she goes for it pull away. I usually high five normally a time or two then do this - you SHOULD high five normally next though to ease it back.
Those two I use all the time. What are yours?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
similar but pretend to slightly zone out when shes talking to u and get caught looking at her lips then say "oh sorry whats was that" always met by a blush from her.Dubh said:intentionally get caught starring at a her and then smiling and then looking away thats the best
adding that to my arsenal.Boxer said:When the girl I'm with starts to sing a song that's stuck in her head...
Me: Hey who sings that?
Her: <artist name>
Me: Alright lets keep it that way![]()
I accidentally use something along these lines....it drives women who are interested in you nuts when you don't pay attention to what they are saying. E.g. you are doing something and they start talking but your concentrating on what you are doing. You turn and saying "sorry what was that?".londonzen said:similar but pretend to slightly zone out when shes talking to u and get caught looking at her lips then say "oh sorry whats was that" always met by a blush from her.
girls do it all the time but there thing is much more blatant followed by a "im sorry what did you say" with a cheeky smile
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.