Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That's amazing!! I try to act like a 5 year old sometimes, although I keep it to a minimum because I don't want to be seen as the "dancing monkey" or whatever. But this is good stuff, probably better for HB8+ in my opinionOxide said:Everyone has a few of these. The stuff you pull out of the hat with almost every girl that works almost always.
Here is some of mine:
The good old, "hey what's this?" as you point to her neck (where adams apple would be). As she looks down you flick her chin and laugh.?
For n easrlier kiss that would probably be awkward, sounds like it depends on the girl also. As you said though you got mixed result, Ill try this though AmazingAmazing said:anyone try doing the kiss, then saying "well, that was good, like a 7/10"
i did it a few times with mixed results though
Yeah, this usually works, though I've only used it on HB7.5s and above.Amazing said:anyone try doing the kiss, then saying "well, that was good, like a 7/10"
i did it a few times with mixed results though
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
NewAndImproved said:Haven't had the balls to try it on a random girl though.
Funnily enough I use both of these. Except I add the "Naooooooooooooooooooooo" at the end of pulling away for the High Five.Oxide said:The good old, "hey what's this?" as you point to her neck (where adams apple would be). As she looks down you flick her chin and laugh.
The high five take away. Get pumped, say high five and as she goes for it pull away. I usually high five normally a time or two then do this - you SHOULD high five normally next though to ease it back.
Those two I use all the time. What are yours?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
similar but pretend to slightly zone out when shes talking to u and get caught looking at her lips then say "oh sorry whats was that" always met by a blush from her.Dubh said:intentionally get caught starring at a her and then smiling and then looking away thats the best
adding that to my arsenal.Boxer said:When the girl I'm with starts to sing a song that's stuck in her head...
Me: Hey who sings that?
Her: <artist name>
Me: Alright lets keep it that way![]()
I accidentally use something along these lines....it drives women who are interested in you nuts when you don't pay attention to what they are saying. E.g. you are doing something and they start talking but your concentrating on what you are doing. You turn and saying "sorry what was that?".londonzen said:similar but pretend to slightly zone out when shes talking to u and get caught looking at her lips then say "oh sorry whats was that" always met by a blush from her.
girls do it all the time but there thing is much more blatant followed by a "im sorry what did you say" with a cheeky smile
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.