"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Your goals with women are...?

What are your goals with women?

  • Sex as many women as possible

    Votes: 5 55.6%

  • Screening for an LTR/marriage

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Shoot for 1-3 long lasting plates

    Votes: 4 44.4%

  • Get a GF and a couple side pieces

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    9
Roober

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Reading around here, just curious on everyone's goals. I am going under the assumption that your career and life goals lie ahead of women. Women are a supplement to our lives, a nice accessory to our focus on ourselves. I don't mean to objectify them, but merely to reason that we are here for ourselves, our improvement, and our ultimate success.

If we can take someone along for the ride, then great. If she does not fit with our mindset and value system, the nexting system is enforced!

I have come to realize that I do enjoy giving women the more girlfriend type of experience. Ideally, I can do this with two women at once (still working on it). This probably sounds terrible, but I want to leave a trail of alpha widows in my wake, because I was the best she encountered in sex, travel, personality, and everything else. Basically, she was lucky to have me in her life for 3, 4, 5 months until she "messed up" by saying she "loves" me, asked for a relationship, or disappointed me...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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guru1000

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deesade said:
Coming off a break period with no real momentum or focus. So, not 100% sure this time around. Head is fvcked from seeing women from my past (which is a mistake - I know that).

Probably just wing it for a month or two and see what happens.

2016, I had a thing for keeping 1-3 long lasting plates, so I choose that option in the list. Although, I don't think that I want to do that again.

This time around, I think I want quicker sex, harsher blowouts, better stories. Push things a bit harder.
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I want some over-the-top, shameless field reports from you. Nothing less is expected. I will be doing the same.
 
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break i love money dont you? and you might like the other girls even if youre not one
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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RangerMIke

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I don't think I have any goals... just go have fun, if I have female company great... if not, that's okay too. I guess the only goal I have is not have any dry spells that are too long.
 
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Well I'm setting up three dates for next week. Gotta have a back up and a back up of a back up. I was complacent for 6 months and now I'm back in the game.
 
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