"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your goals with women are...?

What are your goals with women?

  • Sex as many women as possible

    Votes: 5 55.6%
  • Screening for an LTR/marriage

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Shoot for 1-3 long lasting plates

    Votes: 4 44.4%
  • Get a GF and a couple side pieces

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    9

Roober

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Reading around here, just curious on everyone's goals. I am going under the assumption that your career and life goals lie ahead of women. Women are a supplement to our lives, a nice accessory to our focus on ourselves. I don't mean to objectify them, but merely to reason that we are here for ourselves, our improvement, and our ultimate success.

If we can take someone along for the ride, then great. If she does not fit with our mindset and value system, the nexting system is enforced!

I have come to realize that I do enjoy giving women the more girlfriend type of experience. Ideally, I can do this with two women at once (still working on it). This probably sounds terrible, but I want to leave a trail of alpha widows in my wake, because I was the best she encountered in sex, travel, personality, and everything else. Basically, she was lucky to have me in her life for 3, 4, 5 months until she "messed up" by saying she "loves" me, asked for a relationship, or disappointed me...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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guru1000

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Coming off a break period with no real momentum or focus. So, not 100% sure this time around. Head is fvcked from seeing women from my past (which is a mistake - I know that).

Probably just wing it for a month or two and see what happens.

2016, I had a thing for keeping 1-3 long lasting plates, so I choose that option in the list. Although, I don't think that I want to do that again.

This time around, I think I want quicker sex, harsher blowouts, better stories. Push things a bit harder.
I want some over-the-top, shameless field reports from you. Nothing less is expected. I will be doing the same.
 

nikkisixx

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break i love money dont you? and you might like the other girls even if youre not one
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RangerMIke

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I don't think I have any goals... just go have fun, if I have female company great... if not, that's okay too. I guess the only goal I have is not have any dry spells that are too long.
 

skinnyguy

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Well I'm setting up three dates for next week. Gotta have a back up and a back up of a back up. I was complacent for 6 months and now I'm back in the game.
 
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